Write down your questions. Share anything new and exciting. These are important! You and your child should be ready to participate fully in the visit. You are a partner with your health care provider; your child is learning.
Children with special needs: Discuss how school is going, support services, etc. Bring your child's updated or new Individualized Education Program (IEP) to the visit, mention treatments, medications, or visits to specialists.
At this age, your child may:
YOUR questions and concerns are the #1 priority! Your health care provider may also discuss:
School: Adjustment, behavior, progress; involvement with activities during and after school; bullying; parent involvement; special education or services
Development and emotional health (mental health): Puberty; independence; self-esteem; rules and consequences; temper; managing disagreements
Food/eating and physical activity: Healthy weight; food choices and amounts; calcium for bones; water instead of soda; enough activity; screen time limits
Oral health: Daily brushing and flossing; fluoride; regular visits to the dentist
Safety: Knowing your child's friends; supervision; car safety (belts/booster seats); helmets; playground, sports, swimming; sunscreen; smoke-free home/car; guns locked up; computer safety (games, Internet, email)
Your health care provider will do a physical exam, covering your child with a drape for privacy, and measure height, weight, Body Mass Index (BMI), and blood pressure; observe teeth and mouth; ankle/knee/ hip movement; genitals. May carry out screening tests: vision, hearing, others as needed.